Ciara vs Future
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| courtesy rapup.com |
Future has his guns out for Ciara, aka Cici, and he's comin' a'blazin! He claims that he is paying $15,000 monthly for child support, but Ciara won't let him see his son. Then comes the collective judgment of instagram and twitter... *sigh*
Ok, let's go ahead and put it out there...
NONE OF US WERE THERE, SO WE DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON!
You have men on twitter, butt-hurt and all in their feelings, because of whatever past or present baby-momma situations they have going on, calling Ciara everything but a child of God. Some of these females are going hard (and I feel you), but we honestly have to admit, like the men: We don't know what's going on behind closed doors. How can we honestly judge Future and Ciara's situation, if we are not privy to the ins-and-outs of their parental relationship? #1. We can't. #2. It's not our job to judge, although the way that we go in on these celebrity relationships, you would think that we get W-2's for criticizing.
All we do know is this: 1. Future has many baby-mommas, including Ciara. 2. Ciara has dated other rappers, but has no other children. 3. Ciara loved Future. 4. Something happened (infidelity, allegedly) and their engagement was broken off. 5. They have a handsome little boy that they call "Baby Future". 6. Ciara has moved on. 7. Future enjoys bashing Ciara in the media (and tends to act like a bitter baby-daddy; I'm not judging, but I can be a little biased, though). 8. Future alleges that he pays $15K per month in child support, but is not allowed to see his child.
If Ciara really isn't allowing Future to see his son, I hope that she has a valid reason to support that decision. I do know that Future calling Ciara a "bitch" on social media is not going to help his case, whatsoever. Yet, I am not the one that she has to explain it to, so instead of judging their situation, let's learn something from it. Because, trust and believe, whatever they are going through, they are doing it quite better than most of us. A lot of you don't even know the state that your baby-daddy resides in...so you really don't have the place to talk about Ciara. Too many of you guys don't know when you even saw your children last, so you definitely don't have room to talk about Future. For those mothers and fathers that are doing it right, I salute you!
Let's just agree to this: Let's hope that Future takes a cue from Ciara, and learns how to handle things as a grown man, and not a child throwing a tantrum. I hope that they are able to work out their differences for Baby Future, because if not, Baby Future will suffer most from this chaotic situation, much more than his parents.
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