#LHHNY: Tara, Amina, and That Damn Peter Gunz!

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So, here we go again with the what? Third or fourth season of Tara and Amina arguing over Peter Gunz. Peter Gunz? Yes, Peter Gunz. I don't know what kinda game Peter has, because every time I see him, he looks like he's on a hall pass from the special ed room. He's a nice looking man, but damn, he looks slow. I wonder what kinda conversation they have... Anyway, on this last episode of #LHHNY, Amina decides to confront Tara about her husband. Why she sees the need to do this, I haven't the faintest idea. I guess, in Amina's mind, she has every right to confront Tara, seeing as she feels that Tara and Peter are still sleeping together. She's correct--she has every right to confront Tara, but does that make it the right thing to do? I never would have confronted Tara about Peter, because if Amina was feeling in her spirit that somethin' in the air stank, then she should have trusted her instinct. If she knows nothing by now, it's that Peter will cheat, and Peter will lie. So why keep allowing herself to be trampled on? Well, love is a mighty powerful thing, but lack of respect for yourself is even more powerful.

Anywhoo, Tara decides to stage a "Peter-vention", where Amina and her would confront Peter and the truth would set them all free. Girl, bye! Ain't nobody that damn stupid! Tara didn't do that because she was on some noble quest for the truth; she did it because that was one more time that she could rub her relationship with Peter in Amina's face. I mean, what truth does she need? She KNOWS that she's still screwing Peter. She KNOWS that he's still married to Amina, regardless of what he claims to be the status of their relationship. So what more does Tara need to know? Oh, she knows that Peter means her, nor Amina, any good, but for some reason, these two ladies just can't let go. Then, according to the blogs, Tara is ALLEGEDLY pregnant by Peter, and the last thing we here Amina yell at him is that she's pregnant, too! #DisTewMuch
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When in the hell does this three-way from hell end? I'm about to name some of my Sims© characters after Peter, Tara, and Amina, and just move them all in together. One big happy family. Makes more sense this way, doesn't it? I mean, Tara wants to win, but if the prize is Peter, has she won anything? Because if he doesn't cheat with Amina, it will be with someone else. The same goes for Tara. At least if they walk away from this situation, maybe they both can come away with some sense of dignity, and maybe, one day, find what real love is. I've found from being in a similar situation that the best thing that a woman can do is to love herself. When she loves herself, that love is so powerful, that it WILL NOT allow a woman to remain in a situation where she is not respected and valued. Been there, done that, got a badge to prove it. Yet these women are too busy swearing that every decision that they make is for their kids. Let me tell ya, your kids will never want their mother to be devalued and unloved. When mommy's happy, the kiddos are happy. But, what say you?

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